Going Steady - Peer Pressure (Group Activity)
Scenario 4 (Reg no: 13 - 16; 33 - 36)
Peter’s dilemma
I am a 14 year old boy. I have been seeing this girl since I was in Sec 1. My parents are often out of town and they trust me. My girlfriend has begun pushing me to take her to my house and make love to her. This is not like her at all!
She has also started wearing strong perfume and really tight low-cut sexy clothes. I’ve made it clear that I don’t want to have sex before I marry. She however seems determined to make me give in. She says that I’m too immature.
Please tell me what to do.
Answer:
I think you should break up with the girl. The girl is only dating you for your body. She does not love you truthfully. Those that truthfully love you will respect your decision and body. If you tell that girl that you do not want to have sex until you are married, she should respect that decision of yours and wait until both of you marries before having sex.